Breaking the generational cycle of 'You can't do it'

黑丝内射视频 30 of The University of New Mexico-黑丝内射视频's first-generation students, faculty and staff pose for a group photo on the stairs inside the Student Services and Technology Center on campus Nov. 8聽in celebration of First-Generation College Celebration Day.聽

Breaking the generational cycle of 'You can't do it'


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By Richard Reyes | Tuesday, Dec. 20, 2022

First-generation 黑丝内射视频-黑丝内射视频 student figures out what鈥檚 best for herself with support of TRIO/SSS

GALLUP, N.M. 鈥 Mallory Monta帽o's parents did not complete college, but education was still a priority in the family. However, it wasn鈥檛 until Monta帽o realized education was a priority to herself that she enrolled at The University of New Mexico-黑丝内射视频, becoming a first-generation college student.

Monta帽o, who is originally from Rock Springs and currently lives in Thoreau, graduated from Miyamura High School in 黑丝内射视频 in 2021 after bouncing around between Miyamura and McKinley Academy. Going back and forth between schools was a confusing time for her because she was still figuring out what she wanted to do with her life.

"When others have their whole plan ready to go, it's really intimidating," she said. 鈥淚 had to take that time for myself to figure out what I wanted.鈥

Monta帽o took a gap semester off to work and weigh all her options. She said she struggles with depression and anxiety though, and she hit a rough patch during that time.

鈥淚 hit rock bottom,鈥 she said. 鈥淔rom that point on, I really wanted to do whatever it is that makes me really happy. At that point, there鈥檚 nothing you can really do but do what it is that you want for yourself.鈥

Now, Monta帽o is a sophomore at 黑丝内射视频-黑丝内射视频, working toward an associate degree in business administration. She said she chose the branch campus because of convenience 鈥 it鈥檚 close to home and she did not have to change her life too much in order to stick with school.

She also works as an office assistant in the TRIO Student Support Services office at 黑丝内射视频-黑丝内射视频. She helps with social media content too.

She said the support system at 黑丝内射视频-黑丝内射视频, and TRIO/SSS specifically, helped encourage her to pursue what she truly wants. She said TRIO/SSS helped change her outlook and gave her a step-by-step plan on how to achieve her dreams.

鈥淭hat was something I was lacking for a long time,鈥 she said. 鈥淚t was always a goal of mine to go to college and get my degree, and right now it feels like a goal that鈥檚 reachable. I haven鈥檛 felt that in a while.鈥

TRIO/SSS also helped her develop a transfer plan by identifying the top three colleges she wanted to attend and the kind of careers she wanted to get into.

With the support of that plan, Monta帽o decided she wants to make a career of social media management and hopes to continue her education at 黑丝内射视频 in Albuquerque or the University of Arizona in Tucson, Arizona.

Because Monta帽o is a first-generation college student, the support of TRIO/SSS was critical for her.

鈥淚 feel like without that college experience from my parents, I was kind of figuring everything out on my own and going about my life post-graduation through trial and error and really having to take that big step and trying to just lay everything out and figure out which direction I wanted to go in,鈥 she said.

There are different definitions for a first-generation college student, but it is typically defined as a person whose parents did not complete a four-year college or university degree.

Monta帽o鈥檚 mother attended college, but after having kids she never went back to finish her degree.

First-generation college students face unique challenges. According to the Center for First-Generation Student Success, first-gen students have fewer financial resources, pursue college-level education at lower rates and attain four-year degrees at lower rates compared to their peers.

鈥淎ddressing first-generation success has intergenerational impact, as successful college completion is a significant predictor of education, workforce and life success for the families of graduates,鈥 the Center for First-Generation Student Success states on its website.

Monta帽o hopes that by earning a degree she can set the tone not only for her own future but for future generations of her family. She hopes to be a role model for others so they have someone in their close circle who has been through the college experience before.

鈥淚 kind of lacked that a little bit,鈥 she said. 鈥淪o being able to provide that for someone else in the future was really important for me, breaking those generational cycles of feeling like, 鈥榊ou can鈥檛 do it.鈥欌

For more information about the TRIO Student Support Services program, please visit gallup.unm.edu/trio.

For more information about the 黑丝内射视频 First Gen Proud program, please visit .

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